One fine Sunday evening a few weeks ago found me washing
dishes while my family watched television in the other room. A song, one that I
hadn’t heard in well over a decade, began bouncing around my head. The song was
called “Bedtime Stories” by Justin Hayward. For those of you unfamiliar with
Mr. Hayward’s oeuvre, he is a guitarist and sometime lead singer of the band
The Moody Blues. My brother Greg was a huge Moody Blues fan and he picked up
all of the Moody’s solo efforts as well. Sometime in the early 1980’s, he
picked up Mr. Hayward’s solo LP, Night Flight. Circa 1982, I came into
possession of a cassette copy of the album, and for a brief time it was in
heavy rotation in the tape deck of my 1982 Toyota Celica. It was the soundtrack
of more than a few nights of high-school hijinks. I loved the album, and I
think my friends, who happened to be in the car with me, tolerated it. They
didn’t demand I turn it off, and they even learned the lyrics for some
sing-along action (we were really crazy kids, I tell you).
Anyway, “Bedtime Stories” was running riot through my brain,
and I decided I needed to listen to it at that moment. This being the age of
instant gratification, I logged onto the computer and went to the iTunes store.
No luck. I tried Amazon, but they didn’t carry Night Flight either.
Since I prefer to acquire my music legally (rebel that I am), I went to eBay,
found a copy of the CD for six bucks and purchased it. I can’t recall the last time I bought a
CD. About a week later, it came in the mail. Talk about instant gratification
delayed.
I immediately burned it into iTunes so I wouldn’t have to
deal with the physicality of the music-distribution-device again. I listened to
the album in its entirety while trying to get some work done around the house.
Instead of being swept away to nostalgic nights of grade-eleven mischief –
furtive drive-bys of Kelly’s house, going way too fast down Beaumont Avenue
(why do they allow 16-year-old kids to drive?), late-night winter walks up
Upper Hill Drive (damn, I was a veritable delinquent!), and ceaseless trips to
the video arcade -- I was instead
put into a very dark and somber place. My wife came into the room, and I
practically snapped at her.
“What’s wrong with you?”
I had a revelation. “It’s this album. It’s putting me in a
bad mood.”
“Then turn it off! Why would it put you in a bad mood?”
“’Cause it reminds me of Greg.” Yep, this album was
inextricably entwined with my memories of the brother who taped it for me in
the first place.
“I like to smoke,” he once told me when I was young and
naïve and thought that pleading with someone to stop smoking might actually
make them quit. I idolized my older brother. He was a really good guitarist, a
decent athlete, pretty good looking, had a way with the ladies. He was pretty
much my antithesis. He was 10 years older than I was, and let me just say that
the highlight of my young life was a week I spent with him when I was fifteen
and he lived in Chico, CA in a house with a couple of roommates who didn’t mind
a fifteen-year old kid hanging around them for a week. That week should be its
own blog post one day.
So when my talented brother who had his struggles in life,
overcame them, and became a loving and dedicated husband, father and the best
damn manager that Pizza Hut ever had, succumbed to lung cancer at age 54, a
piece of my personal history died with him. He lived 2000 miles away from me,
we spoke on the phone five times a year, if that. But you could not say that we
weren’t close. He was the only one of my three brothers that I remember living
with at home. The others are twelve and fourteen years older than I am, and
they were in college before I graduated from kindergarten. Greg was the only
person to whom I could say, “A Wurlitzer spinet for 688, a Baldwin for 777, a
console for 988 and a baby grand – 1888,” and be rewarded with paroxysms of
laughter. Damn, I really miss him. More than I ever thought I would.
Greg and my brother Doug would always whip out their guitars
and sing at family events. All the classics – Beatles, CCR, Trini Lopez
(naturally), and a lot of Moody Blues. When Doug would take a break, I’d fill
in on vocals and Greg would play some more contemporary tunes (Doug believes
that good music ceased to be produced after 1979). We did a heck of a great
version of Nick Heyward’s “On a Sunday.” One of the songs in our small rotation
was “Penumbra Moon,” a sappy, sappy love song from Night Flight. I think
we both liked the fact that Justin Hayward used the word “penumbra” in a song.
I suppose my days of performing those songs are over now.
When I last visited with my brother Doug a couple of months
ago, he told me that he hadn’t picked up the guitar, played the piano or sang
since Greg’s funeral two years earlier. Music had lost its appeal to him.
Suddenly, I saw that happening to me. Instead of making me feel good like it
used to, Justin Hayward’s album made me angry and morose. “No! This will not
stand!” I said to no one in particular.
So, on a long commute one day not long ago, I listened to Night
Flight again. And I sang along, remembering every single word. And I
rediscovered why I liked it in the first place. And I felt glad that Greg liked
it enough to make me a copy of it back in 1982. God, if only he didn’t like
smoking.